Updated 17 September 2026 · Arya Samaj Mandir Court Marriage Delhi NCR
Court Marriage Ki File Reject Kyun Hoti Hai — 12 Wajah, Aur Har Ek Mein Kitna Time Lagega
Counter se file wapas aane par log do din tak yahi sochte hain ki kuch bada galat ho gaya. Isliye pehle yeh: file wapas aana kaagaz ki dikkat hai, shaadi ki nahin — Hindu Marriage Act ki dhara 8(5) saaf kehti hai ki register mein entry na hone se shaadi ki validity par koi asar nahin padta. Baarah aam wajah hain, aur unmein se gyarah ka ilaaj hai. Asli sawal 'kya galat hai' nahin hota — asli sawal hota hai 'ab kitna time lagega', aur is page ki sabse kaam ki table wahi batati hai.
Quick answer
Delhi mein marriage registration ki file reject kyun hoti hai?
Baarah aam wajah hain, sabse aam se: naam alag-alag documents par alag hona (khule hue initial, spelling, surname); address proof kisi aur ke naam par ya purane shehar ka; gawah ka photocopy le kar aana; date of birth do documents par alag; joint affidavit (Delhi pati aur patni ke ALAG-ALAG maangta hai); galat office ya jurisdiction; divorce decree ki sirf photocopy ya finality ka saboot na hona; purohit ke certificate par register entry number na hona; photographs kam ya attested na hona; dono mein se ek ka na aana; application ka koi khaana adhoora; aur umar poori na hona. In baarah mein se gyarah ka ilaaj hai — sirf umar ka nahin. Time alag-alag hai: joint affidavit, photographs, galat office aur gawah ka original ek din ka kaam hai; naam ka chhota farq aur certified decree kuch din; lekin Aadhaar address update, naam ki correction aur date of birth ki correction mein HAFTE lagte hain aur koi fees unhein tez nahin karti. File wapas aane se shaadi ki validity par koi asar nahin padta — dhara 8(5).
| File wapas aayi — shaadi invalid? | NAHIN — HMA dhara 8(5) |
|---|---|
| Sabse pehla kaam | Wajah LIKHWA kar lijiye, wahin us waqt |
| Doosra sawal poochiye | 'Affidavit se chalega ya source document theek karwana padega?' |
| Sabse aam wajah | Naam alag-alag documents par alag |
| Doosri sabse aam | Address proof kisi aur ke naam par ya purane shehar ka |
| Us din ki sabse aam | Gawah photocopy le kar aa gaya |
| Ek din ka ilaaj | Joint affidavit, photographs, galat office, gawah ka original |
| Kuch din ka ilaaj | Naam ka chhota farq, certified decree, entry number |
| HAFTON ka ilaaj | Aadhaar address update, naam ya DOB ki correction |
| Koi ilaaj nahin | Umar poori na hona — sirf intezaar |
| Affidavit akela kaafi? | Nahin — affidavit aapka bayan hai, saboot nahin |
| Kam logon ko pata | Aavedan wahan bhi ho sakta hai jahan shaadi solemnise hui thi |
| 60 din nikal gaye to | +₹500, phir ₹1,000 penalty jise ADM maaf kar sakta hai |
| Reject rokne ka tareeka | 20 minute — dono ke Aadhaar, 10th marksheet aur passport ek mez par |
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Last updated: 17 September 2026
Is page par pahunchne wale zyadatar log kal hi counter se wapas aaye hain, haath mein wahi file hai, aur dimaag mein ek hi sawal — ab kya.
To seedha kaam ki baat. Wapas aayi file aapki shaadi par sawal nahin hai; kanoon is baare mein bilkul saaf hai. Baarah aam wajah hain aur unmein se gyarah ka ilaaj hai. Lekin asli sawal wajah nahin hota — asli sawal time hota hai, kyunki kuch dikkatein ek subah mein theek ho jaati hain aur kuch mein hafte lagte hain, aur unhein koi fees tez nahin karti. Section 3 ki table wahi batati hai, aur is page par aap sabse pehle wahi dekhiye.
1. Pehli baat — file wapas aana aapki shaadi par sawal nahin hai
Jab counter se file wapas aati hai to log ghar aa kar do din tak yahi sochte hain ki kuch bada galat ho gaya. Isliye yeh line sabse pehle.
Doosri baat, jo utni hi zaroori hai: wapas aayi file ka matlab yeh nahin ki aapne kuch galat kiya. Zyadatar wajah wo hoti hain jo aapke janm ke waqt kisi clerk ne likh di thi — ek initial khula hua, ek tareekh alag chhapi hui. Aapko pata bhi nahin tha.
2. Baarah wajah — sabse aam se shuru
Yeh list hamare apne files se banti hai, upar sabse aam. Lagbhag har wapas aayi file inhi mein se ek hai.
| # | Wajah | Kitni aam |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Naam alag-alag documents par alag — khule hue initial, spelling, surname | Sabse aam, bahut faasle se |
| 2 | Address proof kisi aur ke naam par, ya purane shehar ka | Doosri sabse aam |
| 3 | Gawah photocopy le kar aaya | Us din failure ki sabse aam wajah |
| 4 | Date of birth do documents par alag | Aam |
| 5 | Joint affidavit — Delhi alag-alag maangta hai | Aam, aur sabse sasta ilaaj |
| 6 | Galat office — jurisdiction aapka nahin | Aam, khaas kar 2026 mein |
| 7 | Divorce decree ki sirf photocopy, ya finality ka saboot nahin | Doosri shaadi wali files mein aam |
| 8 | Purohit ke certificate par entry number nahin | Mandir wali files mein aam |
| 9 | Photographs kam ya attested nahin | Chhoti, lekin poora din khaa jaati hai |
| 10 | Dono mein se ek nahin aaya | Hoti hai — aur ismein koi riyayat nahin |
| 11 | Application mein koi khaana adhoora ya signature nahin | Chhoti |
| 12 | Umar poori nahin — ladki 18 se kam ya ladka 21 se kam | Kam, aur iska koi ilaaj nahin hai |
3. Har wajah ka ilaaj, aur usme kitna time lagega
Yeh is poore page ki sabse kaam ki table hai. Log yeh nahin poochte ki “kya galat hai” — wo yeh poochte hain ki “ab kitna time lagega”.
| Dikkat | Ilaaj | Time |
|---|---|---|
| Joint affidavit bana liya | Do alag affidavit banwaiye | Ek din |
| Photographs kam the | Aur banwa lijiye, attested | Ek din |
| Application adhoora tha | Dobara bhariye | Ek din |
| Gawah photocopy laaya tha | Usse original le kar bulaiye, ya doosra gawah | Ek din |
| Galat office chale gaye | Sahi subdivision phone kar ke confirm kariye | Ek din |
| Purohit ke certificate par entry number nahin | Mandir ko phone kar ke likhwa lijiye — unke register mein hota hai | Kuch din |
| Naam ka chhota farq | Aksar ek naye affidavit se sulajh jaata hai | Kuch din |
| Divorce decree ki photocopy thi | Court se certified copy + finality ka saboot — ek hi chakkar mein dono | Kuch din se hafte, court ke shehar par nirbhar |
| Address proof kisi aur ke naam par | Apne naam par kuch banwaiye — rent agreement, utility, bank | Din se hafte |
| Aadhaar par purana address | UIDAI se update | Hafte |
| Naam ka bada farq source document par | School board ya passport office se correction | Hafte |
| Date of birth ka farq | School board ya UIDAI se correction | Hafte |
| Umar poori nahin | Koi ilaaj nahin | Intezaar |
4. Naam ka mismatch — sabse badi wajah, detail mein
Har doosri wapas aayi file yahi hai, isliye ise alag se samajhna zaroori hai.
Yeh dikhta kaisa hai
- Aadhaar par “R. Kumar”, 10th ki marksheet par “Rajesh Kumar” — khula hua initial.
- Ek document par surname hai, doosre par nahin.
- Spelling ka farq — Sanjay / Sanjai, Neha / Nehaa, Siddharth / Sidharth.
- Shaadi ke baad badla hua surname ek document par chadh gaya, doosre par nahin.
- Pita ka naam ek jagah poora, doosri jagah sirf initial.
Ilaaj do tarah ka hota hai, aur inme zameen-aasmaan ka farq hai
| Chhota farq | Bada farq | |
|---|---|---|
| Jaise | Khula hua initial, ek spelling | Alag naam, alag surname, DOB bhi alag |
| Ilaaj | Ek affidavit jisme dono naam ek hi vyakti ke bataye jaayein | Source document theek karwana — school board, UIDAI ya passport office |
| Time | Kuch din | Hafte |
| Kharcha | Stamp paper aur notary — mamooli | Board ya UIDAI ki fees — bhi mamooli. Asli keemat time hai |
5. Address proof — doosri sabse badi wajah
Delhi mein yeh itni aam hai ki iski apni ek alag guide honi chahiye, aur hai. Yahan sirf wo hissa jo wapas aayi file se juda hai.
Do alag cheezein, jinhein log ek samajh lete hain
| Jurisdiction ka address proof | 30 din ka nivaas | |
|---|---|---|
| Kis file mein | Har file mein | Sirf Special Marriage Act — dhara 5 |
| Kaam kya hai | Yeh tay karna ki kaunsa office aapka hai | Yeh tay karna ki us district mein notice de sakte hain ya nahin |
| Kiske paas hona chahiye | Pati ya patni — koi ek | Pati ya patni — koi ek |
| Kitna mushkil | Aam taur par aasaan | Time lagta hai, aur notice se pehle poora hona chahiye |
Jab address proof par file wapas aati hai
- Aadhaar par purane shehar ka pata — sabse aam. Ilaaj: UIDAI se update, aur usme hafte lagte hain.
- Proof maa-baap ya landlord ke naam par — wo unka nivaas sabit karta hai, aapka nahin.
- Sirf affidavit — affidavit aapka apna bayan hai, saboot nahin. Akela kaafi nahin hota.
- Kiraye par hain aur kuch bhi apne naam par nahin — iske liye alag raaste hain: apne naam par registered rent agreement, koi utility connection, bank statement. Delhi Revenue Department ki apni list mein Voter I-Card, Ration Card, Driving Licence aur Passport jaise documents hain.
6. Wapas aayi file ko theek kaise karein — saat kadam
- Wajah likhwa kar lijiye, wahin, us waqt. Bina likhi wajah ke aage ka koi kadam theek se nahin padega.
- Ek sawal aur poochiye: “affidavit se chalega ya source document theek karwana padega?” Isse aapko pata chal jaayega ki kuch din ka kaam hai ya hafton ka.
- Poochiye ki baaki file wahin rahegi ya poori dobara laani hai — aur agli date wahin le lijiye.
- Ghar aa kar poori file dobara milaiye, sirf batayi hui dikkat nahin. Aksar ek nikalti hai to doosri bhi hoti hai, aur dobara wapas aana sabse bura nateeja hai.
- Jo sabse lamba kaam hai use sabse pehle shuru kariye — UIDAI update ya board correction. Chhote kaam baad mein ho jaate hain.
- Gawahon ko nayi tareekh bataiye, aur unke original dobara confirm kar lijiye.
- 60 din ka calendar dekhiye. Agar nikal raha hai to ghabraaiye mat — extended period mein ₹500 atirikt aur phir ₹1,000 penalty lagta hai, jise ADM maaf kar sakta hai reasonable cause par.
7. Kaun si galti sasti hai aur kaun si mehngi
“Mehngi” ka matlab paisa nahin hai — lagbhag har ilaaj sasta hai. Mehnga matlab time, aur time hi wo cheez hai jo shaadi ke aas-paas nahin hoti.
| Sasti — ek din | Beech ki — kuch din | Mehngi — hafte |
|---|---|---|
| Joint affidavit ki jagah do alag | Naam ka chhota farq, affidavit se | Aadhaar address update |
| Photographs kam padna | Purohit ke certificate par entry number | School board se naam ki correction |
| Application ka khaana adhoora | Rent agreement apne naam par | Date of birth ki correction |
| Galat office | Divorce decree ki certified copy | Passport mein correction |
| Gawah ka original | — | Umar poori hona — iska ilaaj sirf intezaar |
8. Reject hone se pehle rok dena — ek raat ka kaam
Is poore page ki sabse sasti salah yahi hai, aur ise karne mein bees minute lagte hain.
Uske baad chaar aur check
- Address proof — kam se kam ek ke apne naam par, aur current.
- Affidavit — do hain, ek nahin.
- Gawahon ke documents — unse aaj hi photo maang lijiye. Ek minute ka kaam.
- Subdivision — phone kar ke confirm, purani list se nahin. Delhi 1 January 2026 se 13 districts aur 39 subdivisions mein baanta gaya hai.
9. Hum kya nahin karte
- Hum kaagaz banate nahin — hum batate hain ki kya kami hai aur wo kahan se theek hoti hai. Yeh farq poore page ka aadhaar hai.
- Naam ya date of birth ka “jugaad” nahin karte. Correction school board, UIDAI ya passport office se hoti hai, aur usme hafte lagte hain. Jo koi kahe ki wo ise do din mein kara dega, wo ya to jhooth bol raha hai ya kuch galat kar raha hai.
- Jhootha address proof nahin banate taaki file kisi aasaan subdivision mein chali jaye. Yeh wahi jagah hai jahan ek administrative dikkat criminal ban jaati hai.
- Backdated kaagaz nahin banate — na certificate, na affidavit.
- Umar kam wali file nahin lete. Ladki 18+, ladka 21+ — is baarah wali list mein sirf yahi ek aisi cheez hai jiska koi ilaaj nahin, aur hum us par kaam nahin karte.
- Office mein kisi ko “set” nahin karte, aur wapas aayi file ke baad jab aap sabse kamzor hote hain, tab bhi nahin.
- Gawah supply nahin karte.
- Koi court ka kaam nahin — na peshi, na protection petition, na police complaint ka jawab. Dhamki ho to aaj hi advocate kariye.
- Aur hum aapko yeh bhi bata denge ki dikkat chhoti hai aur aap khud theek kar sakte hain — jo wapas aayi files mein aksar sach hota hai.
10. Date of birth ka mismatch — naam se bhi zyada zid'di
Naam ke farq par affidavit aksar chal jaata hai. Date of birth par aksar nahin chalta, aur yahi wajah hai ki DOB wali file sabse lambi khinchti hai. Umar hi wo shart hai jispar poori shaadi tiki hai — ladki 18 ya usse zyada, ladka 21 ya usse zyada — isliye office is jagah par sabse sakht hota hai, aur usse sakht hona bhi chahiye.
Kahan-kahan DOB likhi hoti hai, aur kaun jeetta hai
| Document | Wazan | Badalne mein |
|---|---|---|
| 10th ki marksheet / school certificate | Sabse zyada — umar ka sabse maana jaane wala saboot | Hafte, board ki apni prakriya se |
| Birth certificate | Bahut zyada | Jis nagar nigam ne diya, usi se |
| Passport | Zyada | Hafte — re-issue |
| Aadhaar | Pehchaan ke liye, umar ke liye kam | Kuch din se hafte |
| Affidavit | Koi nahin — ye aapka apna bayan hai | Ek din — aur aksar bekaar |
Kya karna hai, kis kram mein
- Tay kijiye ki sahi tareekh kaunsi hai — school record ko aadhaar maaniye, kyunki baaki sab aam taur par usi se bante hain.
- Jo document galat hai use theek karwaiye, sahi wale ko nahin. Log aksar ulta karte hain — marksheet ko Aadhaar se milane ki koshish, jo sabse lamba aur sabse kamzor raasta hai.
- Office se pehle poochiye — “mere paas marksheet aur Aadhaar mein DOB alag hai; kya sirf ek se kaam chalega?” Kuch offices umar ke liye sirf school record dekhte hain, aur tab Aadhaar ka farq raaste mein aata hi nahin.
- Correction ka kaam aaj shuru kijiye — iska koi tatkal nahin hai, aur koi fees ise tez nahin karti.
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11. Talaak aur vidhva/vidhur ki file — do chhoti cheezein jo aksar chhoot jaati hain
Doosri shaadi ki files yahan sabse zyada rukti hain, aur lagbhag hamesha do baaton par.
Ek: certified copy, sirf photocopy nahin
Talaak ki decree ki certified copy chahiye hoti hai — wahi court deta hai, apni mohar ke saath. Ghar ki photocopy ya wakil ke paas padi copy kaafi nahin hoti. Ye ek chakkar ka kaam hai, lekin us court ka chakkar hai jo shayad doosre shehar mein ho.
Do: finality ka saboot
Aur yahi wo cheez hai jo sabse zyada chhoot ti hai. Sirf decree ki tareekh aa jaane se shaadi ki aazadi nahin mil jaati — ye bhi dikhana hota hai ki appeal ka waqt nikal chuka hai, ya appeal hui aur khaarij ho gayi. Log maan lete hain ki mutual consent wala talaak isme apwaad hai. Wo apwaad hai nahin.
Vidhva ya vidhur ki file
- Death certificate chahiye — wo decree ki jagah leta hai.
- Koi waiting period nahin hai. Indian kanoon mein vidhva ya vidhur ke liye intezaar ki koi shart hai hi nahin. Ye baat bahut log galat maante hain aur mahine bekaar mein gawaate hain.
- Aur kuch nahin chahiye — na koi NOC, na parivaar ki sehmati, na koi “special permission”.
12. Gawah ki wajah se file wapas aana
Ye sabse dukhdayi reject hai, kyunki ismein aapki apni file bilkul theek hoti hai. Aap saare kaagaz sahi le kar aaye, aur jo cheez rok deti hai wo doosre aadmi ki jeb mein thi.
| Kya hua | Kitna time | Ilaaj |
|---|---|---|
| Gawah photocopy laya, original nahin | Ek din | Original le kar dobara — ya backup gawah |
| Phone mein photo ya DigiLocker dikhaya | Ek din | Practice counter par tay hoti hai — physical original hamesha le jaiye |
| Pata ka proof hi nahin laya | Ek din | Pehchaan aur pata, dono chahiye |
| Gawah aaya hi nahin | Ek din | Backup gawah — isi liye pehle se tay rakhiye |
| SMA par do gawah laye, teen chahiye the | Ek din, 30 din ke intezaar ke baad | Teesra gawah — dhara 12(2) |
13. Dobara jaane se pehle — 14 point ka re-check
File wapas aane ke baad log do galtiyan karte hain: ya to turant wapas bhaag jaate hain bina wo cheez theek kiye jo unhein bataayi gayi thi, ya itna dar jaate hain ki hafton kuch karte hi nahin. Neeche wahi sheet hai — ek baar mein, kaagaz mez par rakh kar.
- Jo kami batayi gayi thi, wo likhi hui hai? Agar nahin, aaj phone kar ke saaf poochiye — “kis cheez ki kami thi?”
- Naam — dono ke, har document par ek jaisa, khule initials samet.
- Date of birth — school record aur baaki kaagazon par ek.
- Pita ka naam — kahin poora, kahin initial? Ye aam mismatch hai.
- Address proof — kam se kam ek, apne naam par, current, aur usi subdivision ka jahan file ja rahi hai.
- Affidavit — do alag, notarised. Joint nahin.
- Photographs — attested, aur zaroorat se zyada.
- Har original ke saath photocopy, self-attested, do set.
- Gawah — HMA par do, SMA par teen; har ek ka original pehchaan aur pata ka proof; aaj hi unse photo maang lijiye.
- Ceremony ka saboot — purohit ka certificate, entry number dikhta hua.
- Talaak — certified copy aur finality ka saboot.
- Vidhva/vidhur — death certificate.
- Videshi kaagaz — us desh mein apostille ya attest kiye hue.
- Folder — usi kram mein laga hua jismein jaanch hoti hai, aur ek pen saath.
14. Jab file doosri baar wapas aaye
Pehli baar wapas aana aam hai. Doosri baar wapas aana ek alag signal hai — aur us waqt tareeka badalna chahiye, koshish nahin.
- Ab likha hua maangiye. Saaf shabdon mein kya kami hai, aur ho sake to kaagaz par. Zubaani baat har baar thodi alag aati hai, aur aap har baar kuch aur theek karte reh jaate hain.
- Poochiye ki wo maang kis dhara ya kis order se aati hai. Asli maang ka hawala hota hai — banayi hui maang ka sirf lehja hota hai. Ye sawal khaas kar un logon ke liye zaroori hai jo doosre rajya se hain ya pehli baar ye kaam kar rahe hain.
- Poori file ek bar fresh dekhiye, sirf batayi gayi kami nahin. Doosri baar aksar wo cheez nikalti hai jo pehli baar dikhi hi nahin thi.
- Tay kijiye ki kami kaagaz ki hai ya source ki. Kaagaz ki kami kuch din ki hai; source ki kami — school board, UIDAI, passport office, court — hafton ki. Dono ke plan alag hote hain.
- Agar baat phir bhi na bane, to ye prashasanik maamla ban jaata hai — usi vibhaag mein upar ke adhikari ke saamne, ya zaroorat pade to kanooni salah ke saath. Yahan aapko advocate chahiye, koi documentation service nahin, aur hum yahi kehte hain kyunki hum litigation karte hi nahin.
15. Videshi partner ki file — ek galti jo India pahunchne ke baad theek nahin hoti
Ye reject baaki sab se alag hai, kyunki iska ilaaj Delhi mein hai hi nahin. Jo kaagaz videshi hai — birth certificate, divorce decree, no-impediment certificate — use us desh mein apostille ya attest karvana hota hai. India aa jaane ke baad wo kaam wahan se hi karna padta hai, aur uska matlab ya to ek courier ka lamba chakkar hai ya ek poora safar.
- Passport aur valid visa — videshi partner ka, original.
- No-impediment certificate apne embassy ya mission se — ya jahan mission ye jaari nahin karta, wahan marital status ka affidavit.
- Videshi birth certificate aur divorce decree — nikalne se pehle apostille. Ye is poore page ki sabse zyada dohrayi jaane wali salah hai.
- Raasta Special Marriage Act hai — nagrikta na koi shart hai, na koi aapatti ka aadhaar. Aur nivaas ki 30 din wali shart ek partner ki hoti hai, jo aam taur par Indian partner pehle se poora kar chuka hota hai.
Aur do cheezein jo videshi files ko rokti hain
| Kya hota hai | Kyun | Ilaaj |
|---|---|---|
| Naam ka format alag | Passport par given name aur surname alag khaanon mein, aur baaki kaagazon par ek saath ya ulta | Office se pehle poochiye ki wo kis roop mein chahte hain — aksar ye sirf form bharne ka maamla hota hai |
| Doosri bhasha ke kaagaz | Bina certified translation ke | Translation bhi us desh mein karwa lijiye, apostille ke saath — ek hi chakkar mein |
Aur ek galti jo poore safar ko mehnga bana deti hai
Videshi partner aksar chhutti le kar, ticket kata kar, ek fixed window mein aata hai — aur wahi window sabse bada dabaav banati hai. Us dabaav mein log wo faisle lete hain jo shaant dimaag se kabhi na lete: kaagaz “manage” karwana, ya kisi aise aadmi ki baat maan lena jo kahe ki notice ka raasta nikal jayega. Notice ka koi raasta nahin nikalta — wo kanoon hai. Isliye plan ulta banaiye: pehle kaagaz aur tareekhein pakki kijiye, phir ticket. Jo jode ye kram maante hain unka kaam aksar ek hi safar mein ho jaata hai; jo ulta karte hain unka aksar dobara aana padta hai.
16. Frequently asked questions
20 questions we are asked most often, answered directly.
File reject ho gayi — kya hamari shaadi invalid hai?
Bilkul nahin. Hindu Marriage Act ki dhara 8(5) saaf kehti hai ki register mein entry na hone se shaadi ki validity par koi asar nahin padta. Agar aap dono eligible the aur rasm sach mein hui thi, to aap us din bhi shaadi-shuda the aur aaj bhi hain. Wapas aayi file kaagaz ki dikkat hai, shaadi ki nahin.
Sabse pehle kya karna chahiye?
Office se wajah likhwa kar lijiye — wahin, us waqt. Zubani 'documents theek nahin hain' sunkar ghar aa jaana sabse bada nuksaan hai, kyunki phir aap hafton tak andaaza lagate rehte hain aur aksar galat cheez theek karwate hain.
File reject hone ki sabse aam wajah kya hai?
Naam ka alag-alag documents par alag hona — khula hua initial, spelling ka farq, ya surname ek jagah hona aur doosri jagah nahin. Yeh baaki sab wajahon se kaafi aage hai. Doosre number par address proof hota hai.
Naam ka mismatch theek kaise hota hai?
Do tarah se, aur inme zameen-aasmaan ka farq hai. Chhota farq — jaise khula hua initial ya ek spelling — aksar ek affidavit se sulajh jaata hai jisme dono naam ek hi vyakti ke bataye jaate hain, aur usme kuch din lagte hain. Bada farq source document se theek hota hai — school board, UIDAI ya passport office — aur usme HAFTE lagte hain.
Chhota farq hai ya bada, yeh kaise pata chale?
Yeh office tay karta hai, aap nahin. Isliye wapas aate waqt yeh sawal zaroor poochiye: 'affidavit se chalega ya source document theek karwana padega?' Yeh ek sawal aapke hafte bacha sakta hai, kyunki iske bina log aksar galat cheez theek karwate hain.
Correction mein kitna time lagta hai?
Depend karta hai. Joint affidavit ki jagah do alag banwana, photographs, galat office aur gawah ka original — ek din. Naam ka chhota farq, purohit ke certificate par entry number, certified divorce decree — kuch din. Lekin Aadhaar address update, naam ki correction aur date of birth ki correction — HAFTE, aur koi fees unhein tez nahin karti.
Kya paise de kar correction jaldi ho sakti hai?
Nahin. Yeh line kadwi hai aur sabse zaroori hai: UIDAI aur school board ki correction ko na tatkal tez karta hai, na agent, na jaan-pehchaan. Jo koi kahe ki wo do din mein kara dega, wo ya jhooth bol raha hai ya kuch galat kar raha hai — aur us kaagaz ke saath aap hi phansenge.
Joint affidavit ki wajah se file wapas aa sakti hai?
Haan, aur yeh aam hai. Delhi pati aur patni ke ALAG-ALAG affidavit maangta hai — department ki apni document list mein 'separate affidavits from husband and wife' likha hai. Achhi baat yeh hai ki iska ilaaj ek din ka hai.
Address proof par file wapas aayi hai, kya karein?
Dekhiye dikkat kya hai. Aadhaar par purane shehar ka pata — UIDAI se update, hafte lagenge. Proof maa-baap ya landlord ke naam par — wo unka nivaas sabit karta hai, aapka nahin. Sirf affidavit diya tha — affidavit aapka bayan hai, saboot nahin, akela kaafi nahin hota.
Kiraye par rehte hain, kuch bhi apne naam par nahin hai.
Apne naam par registered rent agreement, koi utility connection ya bank statement sabse tez raaste hain. Delhi Revenue Department ki apni list mein Voter I-Card, Ration Card, Driving Licence aur Passport jaise documents hain. Aadhaar update sabse lamba hai, isliye wo aaj shuru kariye chahe kuch aur bhi kar rahe hon.
Kya dusre office mein file laga sakte hain?
Aavedan us office mein jaata hai jiske area mein pati ya patni mein se koi ek rehta ho — ya wahan jahan shaadi solemnise hui thi. Yeh doosra raasta bahut kam logon ko pata hai aur kai files ko bacha leta hai. Lekin office sirf isliye badalna ki wahan 'aasaan' hai, wo galat raasta hai aur hum usme shaamil nahin hote.
Gawah ki wajah se file ruk gayi thi.
Yeh us din fail hone ki sabse aam wajah hai — gawah photocopy, scan, phone ki photo ya DigiLocker screen le kar aa gaya. Gawah ko apna ORIGINAL identity aur address proof laana hota hai. Ilaaj ek din ka hai: usse original le kar bulaiye, ya doosra gawah le jaiye — aur is baar ek spare bhi tay kar lijiye.
Divorce decree ki photocopy accept nahin hui.
Certified copy chahiye, aur uske saath finality ka saboot — yani yeh ki appeal ka waqt nikal chuka hai ya appeal khaarij ho chuki hai. Court se dono ek hi chakkar mein le lijiye, kyunki agar court doosre shehar mein hai to dobara jaana mehnga aur lamba dono hai.
Purohit ke certificate par entry number nahin hai.
Mandir ko phone kar ke apne register ki entry ka number aur tareekh likhwa lijiye — unke paas hota hai. Aur yeh aaj hi kar lijiye, na ki paanch saal baad, jab entry likhne wala wahan na ho aur ek chhoti si confirmation poori dhoondh ban jaye.
Kya ek hi dikkat theek kar ke wapas ja sakte hain?
Ja to sakte hain, lekin hum mana karte hain. Counter par ek baar mein ek hi dikkat pakdi jaati hai — jo pehle dikh jaye. Doosri peechhe khadi ho sakti hai. Ghar aa kar poori file dobara milaiye, kyunki dobara wapas aana sabse bura nateeja hai.
File wapas aane se 60 din nikal gaye to?
Ab bhi ho jaata hai. Delhi (Compulsory Registration of Marriage) Order 2014 ke tehat extended period mein ₹500 atirikt lagta hai aur phir ₹1,000 ka penalty, jise Additional District Magistrate reasonable cause par maaf kar sakta hai — aur file ka wapas aana aur correction ka intezaar batane laayak wajah hai.
Kaun si dikkat ka koi ilaaj nahin hai?
Sirf ek — umar. Ladki 18 se kam ya ladka 21 se kam ho to koi affidavit, koi fees, koi custom aur koi jaan-pehchaan ise nahin badalti. Iska ek hi raasta hai, intezaar. Baaki gyarah wajahon ka ilaaj hai.
Kya aap file 'pass' karva sakte hain?
Nahin, aur jo yeh keh raha hai wo aapko galat cheez bech raha hai. Hum kaagaz banate nahin — hum batate hain ki kya kami hai aur wo kahan se theek hoti hai. Agar file poori hai to wo aise hi nikal jaati hai; agar adhoori hai to kisi ke kehne se nahin nikalti.
Reject hone se pehle kaise roka ja sakta hai?
Bees minute ka kaam hai. Dono ke Aadhaar, dono ki 10th ki marksheet aur dono ke passport ek mez par rakhiye aur teen cheezein akshar-dar-akshar padhiye: naam (khule initials samet), date of birth, aur pita ka naam. Phir chaar cheezein aur — address proof apne naam par, do alag affidavit, gawahon ke documents, aur subdivision phone kar ke confirm.
Humein kisi service ki zaroorat hai kya?
Aksar nahin. Agar dikkat joint affidavit, photographs, galat office ya gawah ke original ki hai to wo ek din ka kaam hai aur aap khud kar sakte hain. Humein wapas aayi file ki likhi wajah aur dono ke documents bhej dijiye — hum seedha bata denge ki yeh khud karne wala kaam hai ya nahin.
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Office ne sirf itna kaha 'documents theek nahin hain' aur file wapas de di.
Yeh sabse mushkil situation hai, aur isse bachne ka ek hi tareeka hai — wapas jaa kar wajah likhwa kar laiye. Tab tak humein dono ke saare documents bhej dijiye; hum lagbhag hamesha khud hi pakad lete hain ki dikkat kya hai, kyunki wajah baarah mein se ek hi hoti hai.
Mere Aadhaar par 'S. Kumar' hai aur marksheet par 'Suresh Kumar'.
Yeh sabse aam mismatch hai aur aksar sabse aasaan bhi. Zyadatar mein ek affidavit chal jaata hai jisme dono naam ek hi vyakti ke bataye jaate hain. Lekin yeh office tay karta hai, isliye jaane se pehle poochh lijiye — agar unhone kaha ki Aadhaar update karna padega to wo hafton ka kaam hai aur aaj shuru hona chahiye.
Humne ek cheez theek ki, wapas gaye, phir doosri nikal aayi.
Yahi hota hai, aur isi se bachne ke liye hum kehte hain ki poori file dobara milaiye. Counter par ek baar mein ek hi dikkat pakdi jaati hai — jo pehle dikh jaye. Ab teesri baar jaane se pehle sab kuch ek saath check karva lijiye, chahe humse ya khud se.
Ek agent bol raha hai ₹30,000 mein file pass karva dega.
Aap us waqt sabse kamzor hain — file wapas aa chuki hai, tareekh nikal rahi hai. Lekin sochiye: wo aapke Aadhaar par likha naam nahin badal sakta. Agar dikkat naam ki hai to UIDAI ya board hi theek karega, aur wo ₹30,000 se tez nahin hota. Aur agar dikkat chhoti hai to aapko wo paisa dene ki zaroorat hi nahin.
Meri patni ka address proof uske papa ke naam par hai.
Wo unka nivaas sabit karta hai, aapki patni ka nahin. Lekin achhi khabar yeh hai ki aap dono mein se ek ka address proof kaafi hai — agar aapke naam par kuch current hai to file usi subdivision mein lagaiye. Dono ke paas kuch nahin hai to sabse tez raaste rent agreement, utility ya bank statement hain.
Humne mandir mein shaadi ki thi, certificate par entry number nahin hai.
Aaj hi mandir ko phone kariye aur likhwa kar lijiye — message ya email par bhi chalega. Unke register mein hota hai. Yeh kaam abhi aasaan hai; paanch saal baad, jab entry likhne wala wahan na ho, yahi ek chhoti si confirmation poori dhoondh ban jaati hai.
Hamari shaadi ki date 15 din baad hai aur naam mein mismatch mila hai.
To aaj shaam se shuru kar dijiye, aur yeh maan kar chaliye ki registration shaadi ke baad hoga — jo bilkul theek hai, aapke paas 60 din hain. Ceremony apni tareekh par kar lijiye; wo alag cheez hai. Correction samanantar chalti rahegi.
File wapas aane se kya penalty lagegi?
Wapas aane ki apni koi penalty nahin hai. Penalty sirf 60 din nikalne par lagti hai — extended period mein ₹500 atirikt aur phir ₹1,000, jise ADM reasonable cause par maaf kar sakta hai. File ka wapas aana aur correction ka intezaar batane laayak wajah hai.
Humein laga tha sab theek hai. Itni chhoti baat par file wapas kar di?
Samajh mein aati hai narazgi, lekin office ka kaam yahi hai — dekhna ki kaagaz aapas mein milte hain ya nahin. Aur kadwi sach yeh hai ki jo aaj chhoti baat lag rahi hai, wo paanch saal baad passport ya bank ke counter par badi ban jaati. Ek tarah se aaj ka din bach gaya, bekar nahin gaya.
Kya hum doosre SDM office mein try kar sakte hain?
Agar wahan aapka jurisdiction banta hai to haan — pati ya patni ka pata, ya wo jagah jahan shaadi solemnise hui thi. Lekin sirf isliye office badalna ki wahan 'aasaan' hai, wo galat raasta hai — wahi cheez check hogi aur wahi dikkat pakdi jaayegi, bas ek aur din ke baad.
Humne suna hai reject hone ke baad dobara poora process karna padta hai.
Aam taur par nahin. Aksar file wahin rehti hai aur aapko sirf kami poori karni hoti hai. Lekin yeh office par nirbhar karta hai, isliye wapas aate waqt yeh bhi poochh lijiye — 'baaki file yahin rahegi ya poori dobara laani hai?' — aur agli date wahin le lijiye.
Sach bataiye, hamari dikkat badi hai ya chhoti?
Bhejiye aur hum seedha bata denge. Baarah wajahon mein se aath ek din ya kuch din ki hain — un par hum aksar kehte hain ki aap khud kar lijiye. Sirf teen — Aadhaar address, naam ki correction, date of birth ki correction — hafton wali hain, aur un par bhi hum jhooth nahin bolte ki jaldi ho jayega.
Saar
- File wapas aana shaadi par sawal nahin hai — Hindu Marriage Act dhara 8(5).
- Sabse pehla kaam: wajah LIKHWA kar lijiye, wahin us waqt.
- Doosra sawal: “affidavit se chalega ya source document theek karwana padega?” — yeh hafte bacha sakta hai.
- Baarah wajah hain, gyarah ka ilaaj hai. Sirf umar ka nahin.
- Ek din: joint affidavit, photographs, galat office, gawah ka original.
- Kuch din: naam ka chhota farq, entry number, certified decree.
- Hafte: Aadhaar address update, naam ki correction, date of birth ki correction — aur koi fees inhein tez nahin karti.
- Poori file dobara milaiye, sirf batayi hui dikkat nahin — counter ek baar mein ek hi pakadta hai.
- Kam logon ko pata: aavedan wahan bhi ho sakta hai jahan shaadi solemnise hui thi.
- Bees minute ka check reject hone se pehle rok deta hai — dono ke Aadhaar, 10th ki marksheet aur passport, ek mez par.
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